Wednesday 10 July 2013

Mastering Emotions

Finally I'm back!

It has been a challenging 2 months for me in terms of managing time and emotions. But thankfully, I had the company of this very special book, which had pulled me through these awful challenges.


Coincidentally, for the past whole month I had been reading Chapter Thirteen of this book, which aptly tackled the problem that I had with mood swings and attitude attack.

Here are my favourite excerpts taken from this chapter:
"Today I will be master of my emotions.
And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I will learn this secret of the ages: Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts.
Each day, when I awake, I will follow this plan of battle before I am capture by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure --
If I feel depressed, I will sing. 
If I feel sad, I will laugh.
If I feel ill, I will double my labor.
If I feel fear, I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior, I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain, I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty, I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent, I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant, I will remember my goals.
Today I will be master of my emotions.
Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best, and I am not inferior. There will be days when I must constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down. Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against them, too, I must never relinquish control.
And with this new knowledge, I will also understand and recognize the moods of he on whom I call. I will make allowances for his anger and irritation of today for he knows not the secret of controlling his mind. I can withstand his arrows and insults for now I know that tomorrow he will change and be a joy to approach.
Today I will be master of my emotions.
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me. From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny."
~ Og Mandino

Learn how to master your emotions, good or bad, and you'll gain control of your destiny!

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